Moonbeam13 issued a 'silver lining' challenge
Here's mine;
The negative; My husband has been on disability for the last 3 yrs, has been fighting to go back to work b/c he's a work-aholic and generally frustrates the hell out of me when he's not focusing on getting better or mulling over what we used to have!

The positive; I get to spend time with him whenever I'm not working (which was very rare before), there's never any scheduling issues & there's always someone at home for our kids, so we don't have the extra expenses of daycare & summer camps!
Also, I finally realized how strong he is & how resilient I am!

The negative; I'll have to do the rest later!